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    Why Timing is Everything When it Comes to Marriage Counseling

    June 8, 2021

    Seeking help from a marriage counselor is not unlike seeking help from a mechanic. It makes little sense to take your car into the shop a month after it started making a horrific noise. By that time, too much damage may have been done and your engine may be beyond repair. By the same token, the effectiveness […]

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    Why Timing is Everything When it Comes to Marriage Counseling

    June 8, 2021

    Seeking help from a marriage counselor is not unlike seeking help from a mechanic. It makes little sense to take your car into the shop a month after it started making a horrific noise. By that time, too much damage may have been done and your engine may be beyond repair. By the same token, the effectiveness […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage

    5 Warning Signs It’s Time to Try Couples Counseling

    June 7, 2021

    When you first fell in love, you could never imagine that someday the sound of your partner chewing could make you want to scream. It’s inevitable that once we are out of our honeymoon phase and reality sets in, we realize that all relationships take work and compromise. But while some couples may hit bumps […]

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    5 Warning Signs It’s Time to Try Couples Counseling

    June 7, 2021

    When you first fell in love, you could never imagine that someday the sound of your partner chewing could make you want to scream. It’s inevitable that once we are out of our honeymoon phase and reality sets in, we realize that all relationships take work and compromise. But while some couples may hit bumps […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage, General

    How to Get the Most Out of Couples Therapy

    June 6, 2021

    As a therapist, I often have a front row seat to relationship miracles. Well, okay, there are no miracles really. The fact is “fixing” a relationship takes work. It takes two people wanting it to work and then putting in the effort. Having said that, I have seen couples go from nearly ending it to being back in […]

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    How to Get the Most Out of Couples Therapy

    June 6, 2021

    As a therapist, I often have a front row seat to relationship miracles. Well, okay, there are no miracles really. The fact is “fixing” a relationship takes work. It takes two people wanting it to work and then putting in the effort. Having said that, I have seen couples go from nearly ending it to being back in […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage

    Sex Therapy for Intimacy Issues

    March 4, 2021

    When people desire to be in a relationship, they are not wanting or needing company or someone to do things with. Most people look for that perfect relationship because they want real, true intimacy in their life. But what is intimacy, really? Intimacy is NOT the same thing as sex. You can have sex without […]

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    Sex Therapy for Intimacy Issues

    March 4, 2021

    When people desire to be in a relationship, they are not wanting or needing company or someone to do things with. Most people look for that perfect relationship because they want real, true intimacy in their life. But what is intimacy, really? Intimacy is NOT the same thing as sex. You can have sex without […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage, Men's Issues, Sexual Health, Women's Issues

    How Sex Therapy Can Lead to More Intimacy

    December 13, 2020

    A relationship requires different things to thrive. Good communication is necessary, as is mutual respect and compromise. But one of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship is a sense of intimacy between each other. While intimacy can be fostered through communication, there is really no better avenue to it than a loving sexual […]

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    How Sex Therapy Can Lead to More Intimacy

    December 13, 2020

    A relationship requires different things to thrive. Good communication is necessary, as is mutual respect and compromise. But one of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship is a sense of intimacy between each other. While intimacy can be fostered through communication, there is really no better avenue to it than a loving sexual […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage

    Couples: Both Working at Home? How to Get Along When You Can’t Get Away From Each Other

    March 15, 2020

    How to Get Along When You Can’t Get Away From Each Other As a Coach to Couples,Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a DBT Therapist I have witnessed the struggle many couples have over life together. Problems often include: How to share household responsibilities (Can you believe taking out the trash is a THING?) How […]

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    Couples: Both Working at Home? How to Get Along When You Can’t Get Away From Each Other

    March 15, 2020

    How to Get Along When You Can’t Get Away From Each Other As a Coach to Couples,Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a DBT Therapist I have witnessed the struggle many couples have over life together. Problems often include: How to share household responsibilities (Can you believe taking out the trash is a THING?) How […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage

    When is the Right Time to Try Couple’s Counseling?

    December 3, 2019

    For better or worse. Those words seem easy to say at the time, but when worse gets really bad, many couples are ready to throw in the towel. That’s because they didn’t seek help in time and let things get out of hand. The Stigma of Counseling It can be hard to make the decision […]

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    When is the Right Time to Try Couple’s Counseling?

    December 3, 2019

    For better or worse. Those words seem easy to say at the time, but when worse gets really bad, many couples are ready to throw in the towel. That’s because they didn’t seek help in time and let things get out of hand. The Stigma of Counseling It can be hard to make the decision […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage, General, Trauma / PTSD

    3 Ways Individual Counseling Can Help Your Marriage

    December 9, 2018

    Even happily married couples can hit obstacles along the way. When this happens, couples can either go it alone and try to work through their issues themselves, or they can seek the guidance of a trained and experienced marriage counselor. While some couples feel their problems should be kept private, many more are finding the […]

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    3 Ways Individual Counseling Can Help Your Marriage

    December 9, 2018

    Even happily married couples can hit obstacles along the way. When this happens, couples can either go it alone and try to work through their issues themselves, or they can seek the guidance of a trained and experienced marriage counselor. While some couples feel their problems should be kept private, many more are finding the […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage

    How to Tell Your Partner About Your Past Sexual Abuse

    November 19, 2018

    Relationships always start out on a high note. Your mutual attraction combined with your commonalities stirs up your feelings, while finding out about your differences and exploring the world together makes your relationship fresh and exciting. When your relationship starts to become more intimate, you may start to wonder when the right time is for […]

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    How to Tell Your Partner About Your Past Sexual Abuse

    November 19, 2018

    Relationships always start out on a high note. Your mutual attraction combined with your commonalities stirs up your feelings, while finding out about your differences and exploring the world together makes your relationship fresh and exciting. When your relationship starts to become more intimate, you may start to wonder when the right time is for […]

    Filed Under: Couples/Marriage, Sexual Abuse / Trauma


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